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Saturday, October 13, 2012

The new house & other new news...

Here's  a picture of the new house...well, before it was ours!


We moved in August 30th, 4 days after the girls started school.  It was a stressful week for everyone.  I think Megan took it the hardest.  I think she's finally settling in though.


This is probably Megan's FAVORITE part of the house!  She has her own personal play area (with sandbox underneath).  She's now taught herself how to swing (yay!).

Then to make things more interesting...5 days after moving in, we decided to add to our family!
Murphy, the 18 month Golden Retriever, joined our family. 
He's very active.  He's so funny.  He's a challenge.  He's WICKED smart. He has lots of energy.
Oh, and he's a BIG boy!  We thought Irish was big, but he's definitely bigger than Irish--both taller and weighs more.  He's down a few pounds (much needed, I might add!), but he's long, lean and loves to chew.  Holy moly does he love to chew.  We forgot what having a younger dog in the house was like! :-) Whew.


As you can tell, getting him to sit still for a picture was a bit...difficult! :-)

But, I did finally succeed!

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Your help is needed!!!!

Update: 7/23 Thankfully Alexis and her boyfriend were found safe a few days ago...Thank you so much for your prayers!  It certainly is every parent's worst nightmare!

Some friends of ours' daughter is missing.  She's been missing for a week.  They are absolutely beside themselves.  She left with her friend, but neither have been heard from at all.  PLEASE would you post this, forward this and share this flyer???  Even if you are not in the area that she's suspected to be in (we aren't either)...PLEASE share!!!!  We need to get her picture out there!!!  Time is not on their side...PLEASE!!!

You can also see her information here: http://heidisearchcenter.com/missing-children/alexis-collins/

Monday, September 05, 2011

Saying Goodbye

We had to say Goodbye to our precious Dakota this weekend. She had a couple of seizures at the beginning of August that led us to believe she probably had a brain tumor. While (thankfully) she never had another one, she continued to decline in other areas and we felt like we wanted to put her down while she still had dignity and before the girls saw her at her worst. And believe me, we wanted to spare the girls the experience of seeing her in the confused state she was in after the seizure. It was very traumatic for her and for us. It was a very difficult decision for us and has been difficult for us and especially for Irish as he is missing Dakota. We've had Dakota since she was just 8 weeks old. She was over 13 years old and lived a long life.

This is Megan's attempt to take a picture of us with Dakota.

Dakota & Megan

Best buds...Dakota & Irish
taken just before we left with Dakota

God in his amazingness assured me that Dakota is in heaven when I was reading the Walking with God by John Eldredge. If you have not read his book, I HIGHLY encourage you do to so. It will literally CHANGE your life! His Golden was also very sick. I read that particular part of the book just days after her seizures. It was confirmation that we were very close to the end for Dakota and that it was going to be okay. It has been a hard few days and I find myself at various times thinking "where's Kota?" to only catch myself. And Irish is a bit depressed, but he has had moments where is more lively. She has a great dog and she was my baby (even though she was supposed to be DH's dog!).

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Counting

This morning in the bathtub...she was counting with dad..and kept going after 20...in fact, she went all the way to 29! She stopped then because she didn't know the word "thirty" (we've never counted this high with her before!)...we were both S-H-O-C-K-E-D!

I went to an adoption conference yesterday. It was amazing. You can see some of last year's sessions here. There were some awesome sessions last year...and this year was NO DIFFERENT! I'm really going to miss this conference when we move. Anyways, Dr. Karyn Purvis was talking about when kids feel connected and safe, they have explosions of language and learning. We have had major explosions since she started sleeping with us...she's clearly feeling very safe and connected. Even if you have no experience (or interest) in adoption, I'd encourage you to listen to the sessions as they are good for any parent or grandparent.

Friday, July 31, 2009

Leavin' on a Jet Plane

We're ready (well, almost ready) to head out east. We're planning on leaving the house before 6am for our 8am flight. We're SO EXCITED to spend the week with my sister & her DH...then seeing all the family next weekend! I doubt I'll get to post anything while we're gone...

But, while we're gone...head over to Bringing Lily Home (you can also click on the button on the right). Adrienne & Jim have been trying to add to their family for quite a while...since November, they've held 2 kids they thought would be joining their family, only to find out the biological families changed their minds. They are on the journey to bring Lily home from Korea. They are doing some GREAT fundraiser giveaways. Click over and check them out!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Please Pray

...For Kayleigh's family. She was born in June weighing 1 lb. She went to be with the Lord last night. In her 11 months of life, she never came home from the NICU. In fact, they were preparing to bring her home in the next few weeks.

We know the pain of losing a baby. Mother's Day will always hold a special place in their hearts. Pray that God would bring them peace, hope and comfort in the days, weeks and months to come.

Saturday, April 25, 2009

Stuff

Standard look when outside...run, run, run!

Loves being outside!

Things are insanely busy around here...crazy busy....absurd...can I get off the ride now? Anyways...sleep this week...well, she has put herself to sleep all week...but taking AT LEAST 1 hr every time (including naps). Not going to sleep until 845 almost every night...still up at 5am. Not typically waking up during the night, and if she does, it looks similar to what I posted before. She's averaging 8-8.5 hrs of sleep a night with 1.5-2hr naps...that means LOTS of fits, temper tantrums, frustration, etc. at our house because she is so tired.

She is such a soft hearted girl....if she thinks it is REMOTELY possible that you are laughing at her, she will burst into tears. It happens a lot more when she is tired..and especially if someone besides DH or I are there and laughing. She still does it for us (like this morning at 530!), but it doesn't happen as much.

We're taking her 2 year photos today...probably taking more this week with her traditional Chinese dress...errands to run, student needs to meet (and soon major projects to grade), house to clean, laundry to do, bags to pack, b-day party to plan/prepare for, dog sitter to meet...all before we leave on May 13. Oh boy. My stress level is over the top.

On a side note....a friend of a friend told me about this huge warehouse sale for a local vendor of kids table & chairs, play kitchens, etc. Everything is dirt cheap...seriously...I got this table & 4 chairs for $15 for the table...$2 a chair. They were selling play kitchens for $40. Can't beat those prices! They are new...has a few scruffs, but nothing serious. Yet another "birthday present" for our Sweets (and I need to stop shopping)!



Wednesday, April 01, 2009

Bento's give-away

Never heard of Bentos? Check out Maisie Eats Bento! Right now she is giving away a great kit to get started.

Monday, February 02, 2009

Goodbye, Mr. President

Saw this awesome video on Debbie's blog...thought I'd share!




I'm still recovering from bronchitis, I'll post more about Megan later.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

In just 5 short days...

Megan & I will be getting on a plane to visit family! I'm excited since this is the first Christmas since right after we got married 11 years ago that I'll be home for the family Christmas. HOWEVER, going to SD when they are having serious arctic blasts, is not exactly my idea of fun. Consequently, I've had to re-evaluate our clothing at least twice. I've gotten the warmest clothes we have, layering them and still don't think we'll be warm. Oh well. I'll appreciate our "frigid" 30 degrees when we get get back home.

Anyways...the next several days are going to be VERY tough. DH is being "required" to work 8-10 hrs of overtime this week--yes, Christmas week. And he has to work Saturday (which doesn't count toward those overtime hours). I think he's decided to work 4 OT hours on Monday & Tuesday. So, he'll leave the house at 4:30am and not likely return until close to 8pm those two days. ugh. And to top it off, I have a chest cold and sinus issues. Good timing, uh? I just pray that it's all over by the time we leave. So far Megan has shown no signs of not feeling well, but DH hasn't been so lucky. It seems he might be coming down with something to. I'm sure the fact that work has been so stressful and having to work so many hours doesn't help. Besides, neither of us have gotten much sleep this week. Megan is working on her "I" teeth...and I'm quite certain it has disrupted everything for her. Consequently, she's been awake from about 11pm-2am at least 3 nights this week. It is so frustrating that both of us end up being up for a portion of that time period. Yes, we're giving her pain meds...the poor girl has been on almost constant pain meds for about a month. We've gone through so many bottles of ibprofen, it's not even funny.

Needless to say, sleep has not been good at our house. I'm looking forward to seeing if our sleep issues are resolved once these teeth get in. I feel like we can't even determine if she has sleep problems (non-teeth related) until the teeth are in.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Blog Award

I'm so honored! I've been awarded the uber amazing blog award by Tracey. (Okay, so I got it last week, I'm a bit behind!) I'm so excited! Tracey & I "met" by being each other's Secret Blog Pal this fall.

Here is a little bit about the award: The "uber" (synonym for super) is a blog award given to sites who:
- inspire you
- make you smile and laugh
- or maybe give you amazing information
- a great read
- has an amazing design
- and any other reason you can think of that makes them uber amazing!


The rules of the award are:

1-Put the logo on your blog or post.
2- Nominate at least five blogs (can be more) that for you are uber amazing
3- Let them know that they have received this uber amazing award by commenting on their blog
4-Share the love by linking to this post and the person you received the award from.

So, here are my award recipients:

1. Wendy at Adoption & Fire. I've gotten to know Wendy when we were both waiting for our girls. She was logged in 7 days after us and we got referrals at the same time! She traveled before us so had Catherine just days before we got Megan. Wendy always has such a great information on her blog. She's a Fire Chaplain and is always so inspiring! And I love seeing new photos of Catherine!

2. Debbie over at Family Reunion. Debbie always has such great information! Besides Izzy is an absolute doll!

3. Christy over at To Mia with Love. I found her blog because of a "fluke" when she was skipped and didn't receive her referral when she was supposed to. Later she found out her daughter was "running late"...and she was matched to Mia. Mia is also a Hunan princess. Christy is the one who recommended the lady who I found all Megan's hair clips from (Love to Sparkle)...and for that, I cannot be grateful enough! (DH might not agree! haha!)

4. D & A over at Around the World and 2 Kids. D & A just returned from Ethiopia with their precious Ella. They are waiting for their child from China as well. Yes, I know them in the real world, but I love their humor and honesty about the waiting, waiting, waiting. Besides Ella is absolutely PRECIOUS!

5. Tracey. I don't know if I can actually do that...but I'm going to! I am so glad that I was her Secret Blog Pal and have gotten to know her! I regularly check her blog to see her posts which range from inspirational to humorous. Can't wait until little Sam is born!!!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Down Right Scary

Okay...I am going to interrupt this "Megan blog" for just a moment. I saw this in an article and it is disturbing, yet confirms what I suspected.



Well, you can see the source at the end of the video. One other thing, a documentary is coming out with more information. There is more information on the website at the end.

NOTE: I'M MORE FRUSTRATED WITH THE MEDIA FOR NOT DOING THEIR JOB: report the facts on both candidates.

Okay, returning to regular "programming" (aka Megan!).

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Photos & Stuff

SUPER Wild hair from this morning.
I think the bananas, turkey and pasta sauce all helped!

Okay, so may not the best photo, but doesn't she look AMAZING
in the color of these pjs?

She was being so snuggly on this morning
(probably one we were up at 330!)
She had never done this before.

Every day I am amazed at how blessed I am to be Megan's mommy. She is the most precious, adorable little girl. I am moved to tears to think about our life with her. Of course, we could sleep past 4am, but what's a little sleep! She's more than worth missing sleep for a few months!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Check up

Finding the dog bones for...


Making what I call "Bone art"
She loves to arrange them on the floor.
(well, actually, just throw them on the floor!)

On Monday we went to a new doctor (one closer to home) and got Megan's flu shot. While we were there we were able to get her 18 month check up out of the way, too. She weighs 24 lbs 2 oz and is 30.5 inches tall! That means since her medical exam in China, she's gained 11lbs and grown 7.5 inches! That's INCREDIBLE for about 7 months! It's no wonder she eats like an adult! Seriously, she does. The other night she ate almost an entire chicken leg and thigh. Needless to say, that was when we decided we now need to make a full piece of chicken just for her! She does love chicken--she is my girl!

The face is healing nicely...the scab has fallen off and the mark is barely visible. It's supposed to be REALLY cold (okay, cold by Texas standards!) and windy on Saturday when we are doing pictures. Go figure (it's been in the 70s!). So, I'm having to think about back ups for keeping Megan warm. I had planned on having her wear a cute dress shirt/onesie with a lacy collar and cuffs from Children's Place (that I now cannot find online to link here), and she still will. But, I'll have an undershirt on her as well as thick tights. It's a good thing her pants are too big! That's a lot of extra around the booty (tights with 2 onesies!)!!! Guess she'll have an extra warm tush! haha. I'm also planning on bringing a warm blanket that we can wrap her in between shots. Grandma V is coming to ensure Megan will smile (she has the magical touch!) so she can hold the blanket & jackets while we're taking photos.

Okay, nap time as started, I need to get some research done!

Monday, November 03, 2008

Ella's with her Parents

Another Buckner family has their daughter, Ella! Drop by and and tell D & A congrats and see their precious Ella! They are currently in Ethiopia preparing to bring her home. We met them at various agency events. They are also waiting to travel to China to bring their child home. They started with China, but with the extended wait, they decided to go to Ethiopia while waiting for their Chinese child.

Ella is absolutely precious! Congrats D & A!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Sleep update

I got some great ideas...thank you. Unfortunately, most of them we've tried. The one thing I didn't mention that we tried was different diapers. I had a theory that her very wet diaper felt cold and woke her up early. Megan is a BIG drinker at supper. I mean she can down 6oz of diluted juice (in addition to her big appetite--she can eat 2 eggs, plus peas. She ALWAYS has room for peas!). Then she'd have her bottle--which she'd drink at least 6oz of it, sometimes all 8oz. Needless to say, the diaper was ALWAYS completely soaked by morning. I've heard that Huggies made some great overnight diapers. Well, I could only find pull-ups that were overnights. So, we tried them. They seem to be working. It seems they have a liner of some sort that keeps her from feeling how wet she is. But, maybe it's just happen chance and completely unrelated to the diaper. I don't know. It could also be because she's teething. One molar popped through during this time. She's got another one where the gums are simply bulging, but as of yesterday it still hadn't come through all the way. I also noticed there are a couple of other places where her gums are really tender, so I'm sure she's working on a few more.

At any rate, over the past week, she's slept until sometime between 4:30-5:55am. Although that can be deceiving. She's started having a "tough hour" typically between 11:30-12:30 where she is so fussy, it typically requires me to go in and rub her tummy or back. Often time, several times during that hour. She'll slip off into sleep, but then semi-wake up and then be frustrated that she is awake then throw her paci somewhere and can't find it. Some of the time she is awake and looking at me, other times her eyes are closed. She's really restless during this time as well. The morning she slept until almost 6am, she actually woke up at 3:30 and then fell back to sleep in the rocker with me after I gave her some tylenol. Since we don't have a clock in there, I simply rocked...and dozed off a few times. I couldn't believe it was that late!!! Needless to say, the rest of the naps were a bit late too, so thank goodness we have some flexibility in our schedule!!!

I'm not sure what we are doing to make it better. Or maybe it's nothing that we are doing and simply she's sleeping. Who knows! I can say that we have started putting her pjs on right after supper, then we play quietly (well, not rowdy games, which I have to remind DH!) for about 30 minutes. Then we read books a little after 6pm, have milk, then head to her bedroom at about 6:15. It's sure helped her to go to sleep easier (well, except last night when Dad put her to sleep for the first time since surgery). And she seems to be doing better. I don't know. Again, maybe unrelated. The other thing I'm doing differently is I pray while we're rocking that she'll have sweet dreams, fun dreams, happy dreams and that she'll rest well (and long!). So that's another change.

Afternoon nap--well, I decided I just couldn't always squeeze in the 30 minute video, so I've started reading books. I tell her when the last book is and what we will do after it and it seems to help her wind down and go to sleep fairly easily. We've had several 90 minute naps over the past few weeks. That's good. She's getting about 12 hours of sleep a day, and we're edging toward 12 and half hours. I'm hoping for 13 hrs very soon.

Now..the next area I need help...breakfast! She's apparently not a big breakfast eater (although she makes up for it at lunch and supper!). I've tried eggs, waffles, poptarts, various kinds of cereal. She pretty much was "no go" on all of it the except Kix. Oh, and sometimes Cheerios. Sometimes she'll eat some of my cinnamon raisin bagel with a little peanut butter. Otherwise, she takes one look at what I offer...drinks her juice...maybe takes a bite and signs "all done". That's her version of turning up her nose. Silly girl. So, I regroup and offer something else. Suggestions???

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

What an Exciting Day!

Secret Blog Package

What an exciting mail day today!!! I got a fun package from my Secret Blog Pal (and most of the chocolates didn't even make it long enough to get a photo of it! As evidenced by the pile of wrappers...so sad.)! I am looking forward to making that puppet...looks like fun! The small nail care kit will go in the diaper bag...I never seem to have a fingernail file when I need one! Thanks so much! I'm anxious for the big reveal next week!!!

Hair clips

Then...I also got my box of hair clips. I've been excited to get these for several days...and they arrived today!!!! I won't say how much I spent on the 30+ clips, but it was reasonable This is not all of them...Megan has one in her hair right now. AND I got some for Christmas presents for various individuals (and I didn't want to ruin the surprise as I think their parents all check the blog) so they are not in the photograph. Each clip is "no slip" that seems to work! Megan's had hers in for over an hour, and it has not moved (even though she's not STOPPED moving!). They are SO CUTE! And VERY high quality! If you are interested, I got them from Love to Sparkle. Heather is awesome to work with!!!! And her prices are incredible!

It's going to be SO FUN to pick out a hair clip every day! I've not put what I have in unless we are going somewhere because they get loose, then she pulls them out. She touched this one when I put it in, but hasn't touched it since! Seriously, the picture does not do them justice! They are AWESOME!!!!

And...to top it all off...Fall weather has FINALLY ARRIVED!!!! It was warm this morning (mid 70s), but a cold front come through...it's probably in the 50s now! Feels SO GOOD to have cooler weather!!!!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Pictures & stuff

Megan & Daddy

She loves having books read to her in the bath

And we love to look through the books while Mom is getting the bath ready

Our new skill...moving the chairs around.

Got a new do today....LOVE IT! It should be pretty easy to keep fixed, too...

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Interview

Wendy at Adoption & Fire has asked to interview those who follow her blog (and she follows ours, too!). I figured I was game...so here's her question for me:

You are celebrating your 11th anniversary being married. What advice would you give a young couple about to be married? How have you grown as a person since you were first married? And has having a child changed your marriage?

You may have noticed I said Megan gave us an anniversary present of walking by herself on our anniversary. If not, we celebrated 11 years of marriage on October 4th. So, to the question...

Advice for young married couples: never say something without thinking how the other person will respond to what you have to say. Always think before you speak. Always. You absolutely cannot take words back, and as much as you apologize for something you said without thinking, they truly can never be forgotten.

Now to the area I'm truly "best" at: advice to newly married (or soon-to-be married) women. There are several things I like to share, but it all pretty much can be summed up in one area. No matter how much you cannot believe it (and don't want to accept it), you are the manager of the household. That does NOT mean that you do it all, it simply means you "manage" the household chores to ensure they get done. The approach you use to work with your husband to complete the household chores is key; it must be teamwork. It doesn't get messy by one person, it shouldn't be cleaned up by one person. That's my philosophy, anyways. And, he truly does NOT see what needs to be done. Honest. He doesn't. Watch the tone in how you ask if he'd be willing to do this particular chore--or better yet list the things that need to be done and discuss who's willing to complete which ones.

How have I grown as a person...well, I'm far more patient, accepting and willing to give the benefit of the doubt than before I got married. I also think that I ask more questions before reacting now, but that could be more to having more education than before, I don't know.

Has Megan changed our marriage. Um, ABSOLUTELY. It took us quite a while to find time to talk about our day with a kid who would only sleep when touching one of us (preferably me). Since she goes to bed so early (back then it was 5:30!), it meant whoever put her to sleep holding her (and thus not talking) until we were ready for bed--um, that means all evening. And since she was awake every 90 minutes or so all night long, whoever was "on duty" (me when DH worked) slept in the extra bedroom with Megan so at least one of us would get some sleep. There was not much time for each other. Period. But, now she's sleeping by herself. She's sleeping more through the night. So that means once she's in bed (around 7pm), we have time to catch up, discuss different household problems, Megan problems/excitements, make decisions, etc. Things are so much better, but for 10 of those 11 years we could do whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted. Now, we have to do everything around Megan's eating and sleeping schedule. It's definitely different, but I think we are enjoying our new life.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Random Stuff


A few random things I thought of this morning while sitting in the rocking chair rocking a sleeping Megan...
  • She's sleeping so much better. She'll still fuss a few times (and/or lose her paci), but for the past week--minus a few nights--she's slept from 7pm to 5am(ish, this morning it was almost 6am).
  • She can eat more than me...literally. She loves eggs and can eat almost 2 eggs, and that doesn't include the peas, carrots and 4 (or more) ounces of diluted juice she drinks.
  • She crawls so fast...and moves pretty darn fast with her walker too. We're still right on the verge of walking, hopefully soon!
  • She has gone from sitting to standing several times without using anything to help pull herself up.
  • She loves to read books by herself...it's so cute to see her "reading" some of her favorites...then making the same sounds she does when we're reading it to her (aka at the end of 2 books she makes this cute little hum...she does the same when she's reading her books)
  • She will "disappear" to her room to play with her favorite ball toy (it gives her position away--it plays music when she plays with it)
  • She plays by herself quite a bit. Her favorite toys are still her rings, books, and phones. Speaking of phones, she's started putting her phones next to her ear as though she is talking on it. Then she hands it to Mom for Mom to talk on it, too.
  • She loves to sign "thank you". She'll even sign it if I say it to her (as in, thank you, Megan for handing me something you are not supposed to have). It's so cute!
  • Speaking of signs...she now signs "please" and "potty" too. The other morning Irish came into her room when I was rocking her. She looked at him, looked at me, and signed "potty". I said, "yes, I think Irish needs to go potty." Too cute.
I've been reading the book The No-Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers and have learned all sorts of things.
  1. If I push back breakfast until about the time I desire her to wake up, she'll learn to wait until then to wake up. I've been doing this, and it seems to be helping. At least for the past few days, it has.
  2. If after a few minutes of being awake she's crabby, she wasn't ready to wake up. If she wakes up cheerful, she's well rested and got enough sleep.
  3. Kids her age need 13-14 hours of sleep (between naps and nighttime), and bedtime should be right when she seems tired and we put her to bed (between 6:30 and 7:30pm). The last 2 days she's gotten about 12 hrs, and things are much better.
  4. Behavior of kids who are over tired include: temper tantrums, uncooperative behavior/overly stubborn, crabbiness, hyperactive, doesn't seem as happy as she should be, falls asleep everywhere (we don't have that problem!), hard time falling asleep. These are all problems we've seen. It's nice to know that it's not just her spicy-ness that makes her stubborn (although that could play a part) and her age doesn't necessarily mean we have to have temper tantrums as frequently as we have seen.
  5. No changes to the bedtime/sleep routine will have an immediate impact. She says it could take up to 5-6 months. I think we've noticed this...if I think back to when we first got her, yes, we've been working on better sleep patterns the entire time. We've slowly gotten to where we are. There are few adjustments we're making, but are happy that we've been doing pretty much what the book suggests (I guess you could argue, it's the reason we've had success!).
  6. What you feed your child for supper/bedtime snack impact their ability to sleep. I've not noticed this so much for Megan, but then we've only been watching for about a week.

Words to Live By

James 1:12 - Anyone who meets a testing challenge head-on and manages to stick it out is mighty fortunate. For such persons loyally in love with God, the reward is life and more life. (MSG)