If Brian continues with such amazing sermons over the next weeks, I'm going to have make it a tradition to give highlights of the sermons. This week's was so amazing...I've requested a copy. But there was one point that I specifically want to share--besides there were so many excellent points, I wouldn't know where to stop once I started. (Rumor has it...it will appear on the website at some point in the future--see the website below.)
So, taken from John 6, I'll highlight the one point from the chapter I want to mention...although Brian mentioned many. In this chapter, Jesus feeds the 5,000 the first time. Shortly afterwards, Jesus retreats to the mountain to pray. His disciples decide to cross the lake. The trip should have been short--probably an hour--however, NINE HOURS later they are still rowing. As Brian puts it, it's getting kind of "salty". Imagine the physical pain these guys are feeling from rowing against the wind. The water spraying in their face. The frustration (and possibly bad language?) they express to each other--Come on, guys, who's not doing their part? Why aren't we at the other side yet? What in the world? Maybe we should go back? Mark 6:48 says "He (Jesus) saw them straining at the oars, because the wind was against them." Jesus saw them from the mountain as they struggled to get to the other side. Did you see that? JESUS SAW THEM STRUGGLING! After he saw them, he came to them--by walking on the water. Jesus knew they were about ready to quit. He knew they were frustrated. He told them "It is I. Do not be afraid." (John 6:20). After he came into the boat, it was immediately at the shore.
It makes me think...God sees me struggling. He sees me frustrated with how long it is taking to bring Megan home. He knows my sadness that Megan will not be here for Katie's wedding. He knows, if I let it, this wait can make me "salty" too. Why is it taking this long? I don't know. I have the "quip" phrases I say..."Megan's not ready yet" or "God's timing is perfect". All of which I believe are true. But I know, when the rubber hits the road, He sees me, where I am. He will come to me when He knows I'm ready to give up--to turn around--to call it quits. What about you?
So, where are you? Have you just entered the boat and it hasn't gotten "salty" yet? Have you been rowing for hours...trying with all your might to get to the other side? You know, I think there is something else here too...no matter what the disciples did IN THEIR STRENGTH they were not able to overcome the wind and water. It was Jesus who solved their problem. It was Jesus who brought them to shore--when their energy was completely expended and their body ached. When they were at their wits end, it was Jesus who brought them to shore. It was Jesus. It's so simple, but yet so difficult.
Monday, April 30, 2007
Referral Cutoff
Oh my gosh...the cut off for April is....drum roll, please...NOVEMBER 1ST! That means they are FINALLY matching those in the month before us! WOOHOO!!!
So exciting....only 7 more weeks of families logged in before us! Shouldn't be too much longer now! Puts us in the "probably July or August" category (still!)! Now THAT's good news!
So exciting....only 7 more weeks of families logged in before us! Shouldn't be too much longer now! Puts us in the "probably July or August" category (still!)! Now THAT's good news!
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Does This Hit Home For You?
Pastor Brian's sermon last night (we have church on Saturday nights)...oh my goodness...it was so incredibly good! I had share some of the "most moving" highlights! He began a series 5 weeks ago looking at Jesus through the eyes of John, the disciple Jesus loved. So, this week, we were on John 5. Please take the time to read the entire chapter; as for the sake of space, I am only going to summarize not only the passage, Brian's comments on and my impressions.
Some background, John 5 is the healing of the man who was sitting by the pool Bethesda. He had an ailment for 38 years and had been attempting to get into the pool when the angel came down to move the waters. (Remember, an angel would come down, move the waters and the first person in the water would be healed.)
Brian has such a phenomenal way of making the Bible come to life! He is truly a gifted teacher! He suggested we consider this man's response to Jesus when he asked the man if he wanted to be healed. Instead of saying "YES! I want to be healed", he said, "I have nobody when the water is moving to put me into the pool; but while I am trying to come myself, somebody else steps down ahead of me" (John 5:7). Brian's point is: we get stuck looking only at one solution to our problem. For this man, the problem was not being able to get into the waters...while the solution to the ailment was talking to him! Sometimes God wants us to consider that he wants to solve our problem, but if we are only praying and looking for one specific solution, we are going to miss the healing/answer/ultimate solution. So, what is your problem you are seeking a solution to? Are you asking God to show you His solution or are you praying for a specific solution and not seeing it being answered that way?
I immediately thought of so many people I know who are struggling with infertility. They see the ONLY solution to building a family as a biological one. However, there is adoption which is the way God is growing our family. And I, personally, would not have it any other way! I also thought of a family member who is dead set on obtaining a job with a specific organization. He continues to set his entire life (and his family's lives) on hold by not seeking other employment as he waits for THIS job. I have always wondered all this time he is so focused on one specific thing, what is he missing somewhere else? I know for us, DH did not want to move to Texas. He prefered Chicago. But God wanted us in Texas, and if we had not been open to what God wanted...we would have missed SO MANY blessings!
Do you want to be free of want? Well, the solution is to focus on Jesus. This man was praying for someone to put him into the pool, when if he had even been paying a little bit attention, he would have seen that Jesus--the great healer--was standing in front of him! He almost missed it when Jesus said "get up; pick up your bed and walk" (vs. 8). He was so focused on the only solution--getting into the pool--he was not listening to the talk about temple of who Jesus was. I wonder, how many others around the pool did Jesus heal? How many others then began pursuing their healing from him rather than just the pool? I don't know. John does not talk about any of the others around the pool.
The last point...did you see the people who were focusing only on the fact that he was carrying his mat? They completely disregarded what could be a "bigger sin" of performing a healing on the Sabbath. Instead, they only focused on the man not carrying his mat. Again, we see individuals who are honed into one thing without realizing they should consider the fact that HE WAS HEALED! (Until, of course, the man told them it was Jesus who healed him.) And did you also notice the man did not even realize WHO had healed him until Jesus later found him in the temple? What's up with that? He did not even realize who Jesus was when he was talking to him. He was, again, so focused on the pool, he was not even paying attention to the man he was talking to. Maybe he was not even looking at Jesus, completely focused on not missing the moving of the water. Maybe it "about time" for the water to move...and he was not about to miss it because he was talking to "some man".
Boy does it make me think...is this me? What areas of my life am I narrow mindedly praying for a specific answer for a specific problem rather than allowing God to bring the answer another way? How about you?
Some background, John 5 is the healing of the man who was sitting by the pool Bethesda. He had an ailment for 38 years and had been attempting to get into the pool when the angel came down to move the waters. (Remember, an angel would come down, move the waters and the first person in the water would be healed.)
Brian has such a phenomenal way of making the Bible come to life! He is truly a gifted teacher! He suggested we consider this man's response to Jesus when he asked the man if he wanted to be healed. Instead of saying "YES! I want to be healed", he said, "I have nobody when the water is moving to put me into the pool; but while I am trying to come myself, somebody else steps down ahead of me" (John 5:7). Brian's point is: we get stuck looking only at one solution to our problem. For this man, the problem was not being able to get into the waters...while the solution to the ailment was talking to him! Sometimes God wants us to consider that he wants to solve our problem, but if we are only praying and looking for one specific solution, we are going to miss the healing/answer/ultimate solution. So, what is your problem you are seeking a solution to? Are you asking God to show you His solution or are you praying for a specific solution and not seeing it being answered that way?
I immediately thought of so many people I know who are struggling with infertility. They see the ONLY solution to building a family as a biological one. However, there is adoption which is the way God is growing our family. And I, personally, would not have it any other way! I also thought of a family member who is dead set on obtaining a job with a specific organization. He continues to set his entire life (and his family's lives) on hold by not seeking other employment as he waits for THIS job. I have always wondered all this time he is so focused on one specific thing, what is he missing somewhere else? I know for us, DH did not want to move to Texas. He prefered Chicago. But God wanted us in Texas, and if we had not been open to what God wanted...we would have missed SO MANY blessings!
Do you want to be free of want? Well, the solution is to focus on Jesus. This man was praying for someone to put him into the pool, when if he had even been paying a little bit attention, he would have seen that Jesus--the great healer--was standing in front of him! He almost missed it when Jesus said "get up; pick up your bed and walk" (vs. 8). He was so focused on the only solution--getting into the pool--he was not listening to the talk about temple of who Jesus was. I wonder, how many others around the pool did Jesus heal? How many others then began pursuing their healing from him rather than just the pool? I don't know. John does not talk about any of the others around the pool.
The last point...did you see the people who were focusing only on the fact that he was carrying his mat? They completely disregarded what could be a "bigger sin" of performing a healing on the Sabbath. Instead, they only focused on the man not carrying his mat. Again, we see individuals who are honed into one thing without realizing they should consider the fact that HE WAS HEALED! (Until, of course, the man told them it was Jesus who healed him.) And did you also notice the man did not even realize WHO had healed him until Jesus later found him in the temple? What's up with that? He did not even realize who Jesus was when he was talking to him. He was, again, so focused on the pool, he was not even paying attention to the man he was talking to. Maybe he was not even looking at Jesus, completely focused on not missing the moving of the water. Maybe it "about time" for the water to move...and he was not about to miss it because he was talking to "some man".
Boy does it make me think...is this me? What areas of my life am I narrow mindedly praying for a specific answer for a specific problem rather than allowing God to bring the answer another way? How about you?
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
My Latest Purchase
I saw this on clearance at JCP a couple of weeks ago and purchased it in size 6/9 mo. I thought it looked a bit big, but when I got home and showed it to DH, the first thing he said was "looks a bit big, doesn't it?". (Since he thought so too, I knew it probably was going to be.) So, I decided yesterday to go back and see if they had one in 3/6 mo. I had pretty much resigned to knowing they would not have it, but I got there, and they did! It was the last one in that size too! I was pretty excited! So, whether she's little ity-bity or a just small...I believe this is what Megan will wear on the plan ride home. It is adorable, but comfy. Who can resist a cutie in this?
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Our Farewell--3 Years Ago
It seems unbelieveable that we said good bye to our Ian just a week after welcoming him into the world. I am forever grateful for the almost 24 hrs where he never left our sight...for Brian taking all the family photos of us with our beautiful boy...for NanaLin, Grandpa Gale and Grandma Patty being able to see him alive...for the many friends and family who helped in more ways than I can list.But life goes on. And ours has...different than we expected, certainly more DIFFICULT than we expected, but it has. We miss Ian desperately. I frequently think about how different our life would be if he was still with us. But he's not...and Megan will be soon. So, I attempt to look forward--to what Megan will bring to our life. After all, what other choice do I have? (Well, okay, what other VIABLE choice do I have?)
This week I reviewed notes I had made just 15 weeks after Ian joined our life as I stood up in front of 100+ people and shared my testimony (twice, actually). I was reminded of something that "came to me" then...I cannot permanently sit on the curb of the road of life because Ian is gone. Yes, it is okay to sit down and have a good cry. But, I cannot spend the rest of my natural life sitting on the curb. I'll miss too much of what lies ahead. And now--3 years later--the "curb time" is becoming less, but it does not change the loss. It does not eliminate the pain, but it does lessen. The intensity comes and goes, but with the large circle of unbelieveable friends I am blessed with, I will survive.
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Ian's Birth Day - 3 Years Ago
It's hard to believe it's been 3 years already! Man, time goes fast. While this year has been difficult since we anticipated Megan home by now, it has been the least difficult of all of them, I think. I can't say best, because celebrating a child's birthday without them is never "best", but I can finally say they do become a little less painful. Tonight we are having some close friends over for pizza and a balloon release. Family across the US are also marking the birthday with a balloon release.
I pray next year Megan is here to release the balloons with us! I look forward to having a little one with us to see the world through their eyes!
Sunday, April 08, 2007
Happy Easter 2007!
Well, we certainly thought our Megan would be with us for Easter 2007--or at least have her photo by Easter, three years after our beautiful Ian joined our family. But, apparently her day is supposed to be special without past memories attached to it. Her day will come soon...
At this point, the referrals are not looking good. As of right now, it appears to only be for 2 days of people logged in, which means it contains only October people--and not the rest of October. But, there are still rumblings that information is still in route to arrive early this week. We are hoping that our friends, the Zimmers, will receive their approval in this batch of information yet to arrive. Further, a fellow Buckner/Gladney family, is hoping for referral this week as well. If not, they will have missed the cutoff by 2 days! We figured they would certainly be in this batch! I sure hope more information is on the way. I pray it is so!
Wishing you and your family a Blessed Easter!
At this point, the referrals are not looking good. As of right now, it appears to only be for 2 days of people logged in, which means it contains only October people--and not the rest of October. But, there are still rumblings that information is still in route to arrive early this week. We are hoping that our friends, the Zimmers, will receive their approval in this batch of information yet to arrive. Further, a fellow Buckner/Gladney family, is hoping for referral this week as well. If not, they will have missed the cutoff by 2 days! We figured they would certainly be in this batch! I sure hope more information is on the way. I pray it is so!
Wishing you and your family a Blessed Easter!
Sunday, April 01, 2007
Is it Boy or Girl?
Don't freak..it's not us...well, not really. Clark & Tosha are pregnant! We are so excited!!! Will it be a new niece or nephew! Personally, I think I'm voting for a boy...just to even the score as the current "score" is: Boys 2, Girls 3. We have (in order of birth) Ashley, Kaitlynn, Ian, Brady, MEGAN and new baby! But if we continue the pattern...it could be a girl!
Congrats Clark & Tosha!
Congrats Clark & Tosha!
Friday, March 30, 2007
March Referrals
Rumor has it they are currently in route to agencies! I'm hoping at least SOME of those logged in November 2005 are included in this month. I will post as soon as I see what's included! (Rumor has it they might go at least a few days into November.) That sounds exciting, but we shall see!!!
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Another Month
Here we are...nearing the close of yet another month, the third month of 2007. Certainly, when we started this process almost 2 years ago (yes, dear friends it has been almost that long!), we thought our beloved Megan would be home by 2007. But like most things in our life, this adoption has not gone as planned either. I can be rest assured, however, that it will be beyond what I could have imagined!
I've been doing a lot of soul searching lately...and have come to the conclusion that it would be best (at the current pace of referrals) if we simply have Megan's photo before the July wedding. There is simply no way she (or us) could handle the busy (or rather, CRAZY) week of the wedding having just travelled to China. Therefore, I am resigned--and have fully accepted--that we will not have travelled before Katie's wedding. I am, however, still planning, hoping, dreaming and praying that we will have her photo to share with family and friends in June with plans to travel late July or August (the hottest times of the year in China!). If that be the case, I will confess, from the beginning we believed we'd get referral in June and travel in August--of course that was before these incredible delays and we were talking about 2006, not 2007--but details, sheme-tails. No matter when we get our wonderful Megan, we get her. The timing will be perfect as she has been designed to be in our family. The whole concept is unbelieveable--and hard to describe--but true.
So, has Megan been born? ABSOLUTELY! When? That I don't know...but we will find out soon! As we are about to enter April (a tough month for us), we are ever nearer to seeing our Megan's face. After all, every day is another day closer...
Here we are...nearing the close of yet another month, the third month of 2007. Certainly, when we started this process almost 2 years ago (yes, dear friends it has been almost that long!), we thought our beloved Megan would be home by 2007. But like most things in our life, this adoption has not gone as planned either. I can be rest assured, however, that it will be beyond what I could have imagined!
I've been doing a lot of soul searching lately...and have come to the conclusion that it would be best (at the current pace of referrals) if we simply have Megan's photo before the July wedding. There is simply no way she (or us) could handle the busy (or rather, CRAZY) week of the wedding having just travelled to China. Therefore, I am resigned--and have fully accepted--that we will not have travelled before Katie's wedding. I am, however, still planning, hoping, dreaming and praying that we will have her photo to share with family and friends in June with plans to travel late July or August (the hottest times of the year in China!). If that be the case, I will confess, from the beginning we believed we'd get referral in June and travel in August--of course that was before these incredible delays and we were talking about 2006, not 2007--but details, sheme-tails. No matter when we get our wonderful Megan, we get her. The timing will be perfect as she has been designed to be in our family. The whole concept is unbelieveable--and hard to describe--but true.
So, has Megan been born? ABSOLUTELY! When? That I don't know...but we will find out soon! As we are about to enter April (a tough month for us), we are ever nearer to seeing our Megan's face. After all, every day is another day closer...
Sunday, March 11, 2007
Changes are in the air...
Do you like the new changes to the website? I kind of do...now, if only there was the time to put more information on it! Well, maybe in a few months.
On the one hand, I hope time goes so fast--until we bring Megan home. On the other hand, I have so much do for school (teacher & student) I really need for time to not go so fast.
Spring is in the air, we've had weather in the 70s and 80s and I am liking it (but my allergies aren't!). To be able to go outside and enjoy the sunshine, warm breeze, flowering trees and fresh air...aaahhh...I love Spring! Just think, next Spring I'll be taking Megan on walks in the stroller...Could I go for that? hhhhmmm
Do you like the new changes to the website? I kind of do...now, if only there was the time to put more information on it! Well, maybe in a few months.
On the one hand, I hope time goes so fast--until we bring Megan home. On the other hand, I have so much do for school (teacher & student) I really need for time to not go so fast.
Spring is in the air, we've had weather in the 70s and 80s and I am liking it (but my allergies aren't!). To be able to go outside and enjoy the sunshine, warm breeze, flowering trees and fresh air...aaahhh...I love Spring! Just think, next Spring I'll be taking Megan on walks in the stroller...Could I go for that? hhhhmmm
Saturday, March 03, 2007
March Update
Here we are again, entering another month: MARCH! I can't believe we have already entered into the third month of 2007. Where does the time go? Apparently the next set of matches was sent out on Friday (or so the guessers guess). These will be for those families placed on the list toward the end of October, possibly into the beginning of November. Boy, once they start matching families logged in during November...that will oh, so exciting! December won't be far behind!
I am still standing on my faith the size of a mustard seed (Luke 17) that God will bring Megan home before Katie's wedding July. I would go out a buy her a dress, but unfortunately I don't know what size to buy! But, I sure know what shops to patronize as soon as I find out the size--I've scoped out several! There sure are some darling spring dresses out right now for little girls. And I cannot wait until I get to shop for her!
Overall, very little news to report we are still simply waiting. I'm trying to keep my head above water for the next couple months as I finish up my classes for the semester--many more papers to write and books to read before May! Keith is working lots of overtime due to tax season, so he is also counting down the days until April 17th!
Here we are again, entering another month: MARCH! I can't believe we have already entered into the third month of 2007. Where does the time go? Apparently the next set of matches was sent out on Friday (or so the guessers guess). These will be for those families placed on the list toward the end of October, possibly into the beginning of November. Boy, once they start matching families logged in during November...that will oh, so exciting! December won't be far behind!
I am still standing on my faith the size of a mustard seed (Luke 17) that God will bring Megan home before Katie's wedding July. I would go out a buy her a dress, but unfortunately I don't know what size to buy! But, I sure know what shops to patronize as soon as I find out the size--I've scoped out several! There sure are some darling spring dresses out right now for little girls. And I cannot wait until I get to shop for her!
Overall, very little news to report we are still simply waiting. I'm trying to keep my head above water for the next couple months as I finish up my classes for the semester--many more papers to write and books to read before May! Keith is working lots of overtime due to tax season, so he is also counting down the days until April 17th!
Thursday, January 18, 2007
January is here!
Well, it's been almost a month since my last post...seems to be a pattern here! Not much else to report other than we are, yet again, a month closer to meeting Megan. We are, also yet again, waiting for the next batch of family matches to come out. I predict (with no data to back it up) that they will come out late next week. December's batch didn't actually come out until the first week of January. It matched families through September 27, 2005. So, there's less than 3 months between where they are matching and where we sit on the list. Lord willing, we will be matched in 3 months. But that would be require a miracle for that to happen. It is just exciting to see all the miracles God is doing throughout this entire process, and matching in April or May would be one I'd truly appreciate!
While the wait has seemed to take forever, at the same time, it feels like it will be only a matter of days before we see Megan's face! After all, it will be within the next 5-6 months. Oh my...time flies...even when we are waiting! The realization of how soon it could be made me me go through all of Megan's clothes--oh my does this girl have clothes already! I didn't realize just how much she had until I washed it! (It was 6 loads and I didn't even wash all of it!) As I was folding the clothes, it made me even more anxious to find out which ones will fit her...which ones we will take with us...it's all so exciting!!!!
Well, continue to pray for Megan's safety, security and love until we get there. Pray she'll be here before "the" wedding in July so extended family will be able to meet her too. Pray for our continued patience as we draw nearer to "our turn"! Thanks!
Well, it's been almost a month since my last post...seems to be a pattern here! Not much else to report other than we are, yet again, a month closer to meeting Megan. We are, also yet again, waiting for the next batch of family matches to come out. I predict (with no data to back it up) that they will come out late next week. December's batch didn't actually come out until the first week of January. It matched families through September 27, 2005. So, there's less than 3 months between where they are matching and where we sit on the list. Lord willing, we will be matched in 3 months. But that would be require a miracle for that to happen. It is just exciting to see all the miracles God is doing throughout this entire process, and matching in April or May would be one I'd truly appreciate!
While the wait has seemed to take forever, at the same time, it feels like it will be only a matter of days before we see Megan's face! After all, it will be within the next 5-6 months. Oh my...time flies...even when we are waiting! The realization of how soon it could be made me me go through all of Megan's clothes--oh my does this girl have clothes already! I didn't realize just how much she had until I washed it! (It was 6 loads and I didn't even wash all of it!) As I was folding the clothes, it made me even more anxious to find out which ones will fit her...which ones we will take with us...it's all so exciting!!!!
Well, continue to pray for Megan's safety, security and love until we get there. Pray she'll be here before "the" wedding in July so extended family will be able to meet her too. Pray for our continued patience as we draw nearer to "our turn"! Thanks!
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Our LID Anniversary
Today marks one year of officially being on the waiting list to bring Megan home! How we thought she'd be home before Christmas! How wrong we were! Apparently, she is not ready yet. I don't know what the delay is, but God does. I recently read a post by a mom who pictured an angel connecting her file with her daughter to ensure they were placed together. I have to say I agree with the concept. I know God will ensure we are placed together. That, I am confident!
Referrals are supposed to be coming out within the next week. Those next in line are hoping to receive them before Christmas. And I'm praying that is true for them! Isn't that an AMAZING Christmas present, even if it is a few days late? Hopefully, it will be the rest of the individuals who have been waiting since September 2005. Dare I hope for into October? Well, dare or not, I do! But, I am reminded of words I shared with a friend who was placed on the list in April 2006, whatever it means for our Megan to be matched with us it will be. It might be continued slow down, it might be a speed up (PLEASE!?), it might continue at this pace. Whatever it is going to take, it will take the perfect amount of time necessary for our Megan! It's wisdom that was shared with me...and I am reminded it is true, even though I am anxious to bring her home!
Merry Christmas. We'll have our daughter in 2007...THAT we know!
Today marks one year of officially being on the waiting list to bring Megan home! How we thought she'd be home before Christmas! How wrong we were! Apparently, she is not ready yet. I don't know what the delay is, but God does. I recently read a post by a mom who pictured an angel connecting her file with her daughter to ensure they were placed together. I have to say I agree with the concept. I know God will ensure we are placed together. That, I am confident!
Referrals are supposed to be coming out within the next week. Those next in line are hoping to receive them before Christmas. And I'm praying that is true for them! Isn't that an AMAZING Christmas present, even if it is a few days late? Hopefully, it will be the rest of the individuals who have been waiting since September 2005. Dare I hope for into October? Well, dare or not, I do! But, I am reminded of words I shared with a friend who was placed on the list in April 2006, whatever it means for our Megan to be matched with us it will be. It might be continued slow down, it might be a speed up (PLEASE!?), it might continue at this pace. Whatever it is going to take, it will take the perfect amount of time necessary for our Megan! It's wisdom that was shared with me...and I am reminded it is true, even though I am anxious to bring her home!
Merry Christmas. We'll have our daughter in 2007...THAT we know!
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Well, not as much exciting news in this month's batch of referrals. They were very young children, at least those I've seen were, and all were VERY CUTE! But, there still remains MANY, MANY months between where they are matching and where we are. The agency is still saying we should hear something Feb/March. It would be miracle at the pace they are continuing on! But, God is in the miracle business!
The semester is almost over...praise the Lord! This has been a stinker semester. Looking forward to closing the book on it! Teaching the week before Christmas, so I'm looking forward to Christmas when I will truly get a break. I'm trying to decide which fun book to read! YIPPEE.
The semester is almost over...praise the Lord! This has been a stinker semester. Looking forward to closing the book on it! Teaching the week before Christmas, so I'm looking forward to Christmas when I will truly get a break. I'm trying to decide which fun book to read! YIPPEE.
Friday, November 24, 2006
Another month closer to bringing Megan home! Again, we are waiting to see who receives their child's photos this month which are predicted to arrive in another week or so. It is expected to be those families were placed on the waiting list in September 2005.
Our agency continues to tell us to expect to hear something in February or March, which is just around the corner! While it sounds so far away....February....it's almost December already! Before we know it, it will be 2007...then it will be only a few weeks...and hopefully we'll see Megan's glorious face! It's so exciting to know each day we get closer! As fast as the days and weeks go, it'll be here before we know it. I'm so anxious to know where she is right now...which providence is she in? Does she have a foster mom that is caring for her? Does she have a favorite nanny? I DON'T KNOW! BUT we will SOON!
As we reflect on Thanksgiving, we know that next year we'll have a toddler who shares her food with Dakota & Irish, who squeals with excitement, who is busy, busy, busy! I'm so anxious for that day!
Our agency continues to tell us to expect to hear something in February or March, which is just around the corner! While it sounds so far away....February....it's almost December already! Before we know it, it will be 2007...then it will be only a few weeks...and hopefully we'll see Megan's glorious face! It's so exciting to know each day we get closer! As fast as the days and weeks go, it'll be here before we know it. I'm so anxious to know where she is right now...which providence is she in? Does she have a foster mom that is caring for her? Does she have a favorite nanny? I DON'T KNOW! BUT we will SOON!
As we reflect on Thanksgiving, we know that next year we'll have a toddler who shares her food with Dakota & Irish, who squeals with excitement, who is busy, busy, busy! I'm so anxious for that day!
Sunday, October 22, 2006
We are currently waiting for the next batch of matches to come out. Everyone seems to expect them in the next week. Although we will definitely not be in this batch, the next couple of months could tell us whether we could expect the wait to continue to extend (over 15 months) or if they seem to be attempting to speed up a bit (keeping within 12-14 months). But, one never knows exactly what will happen.
If things speed up only slightly, we should receive our referral (aka photos, etc.) sometime between December (12 months) and February (14 months). In either case, we'd travel approximately 2 months after we receive our referral. So, that means travel between Feb and April. The problem with April is that there is a trade show in China which makes finding hotel rooms difficult (and more costly) close to the US Embassy. Many agencies try not to schedule travel during this time. So, it could be late April or mid-May before we travel IF we receive our referral in February. Now, if we just happen to fall in the later end of the waiting period, then we could just miss the cut-off for Feb, putting us in the March batch at which point we'd most definitely travel in May. I really do not care WHEN we travel (but it needs to be soon), as long as we are home for a few weeks before Katie's wedding in July! I'd like to be able to get settled a bit with Megan before we have to travel with her again. But, it's all in God's hands!
So overall, nothing new to report...simply waiting....still!
If things speed up only slightly, we should receive our referral (aka photos, etc.) sometime between December (12 months) and February (14 months). In either case, we'd travel approximately 2 months after we receive our referral. So, that means travel between Feb and April. The problem with April is that there is a trade show in China which makes finding hotel rooms difficult (and more costly) close to the US Embassy. Many agencies try not to schedule travel during this time. So, it could be late April or mid-May before we travel IF we receive our referral in February. Now, if we just happen to fall in the later end of the waiting period, then we could just miss the cut-off for Feb, putting us in the March batch at which point we'd most definitely travel in May. I really do not care WHEN we travel (but it needs to be soon), as long as we are home for a few weeks before Katie's wedding in July! I'd like to be able to get settled a bit with Megan before we have to travel with her again. But, it's all in God's hands!
So overall, nothing new to report...simply waiting....still!
Tuesday, September 19, 2006
Sunday, September 10, 2006
Still no new information for us to report other than the CCAA website has been updated to show that all files submitted through November 2005 have been reviewed. Our agency had already said that they were reviewing December files, so it was not a surprise to us at all that the update on the website had been completed. It is exciting to know that right now (or possibly it's already done!) our file is being reviewed by officials! Now, bring on the matching!!!
Currently, the families being matched to available babies have been logged in with the CCAA for 13-14 months. If this holds true, then we can expect to hear something in January or February 2007. Subsequently, we would then travel to bring Megan home in April or May 2007. It could be March, however, I really do not see that happening. And if it is April, it will probably be toward the end of April as there is a huge trade fair close to the Embassy the last few weeks of April. Agencies typically do not have family groups go during that time because of all the commotion and hotel rooms are not only extremely expensive, they are also hard to find. There are rumors, however, that we could have to wait until May or June 2007. Our agency, at this point, does not seem to think we will have to wait this long, but there are never any guarantees. And since we are at the CCAA's mercy, we simply wait until our turn comes up.
Keep praying that Megan will be home for Katie's wedding in July!!!! Although we have decided not to have her actually participate in the wedding due to her only being home for a short time, we want her here for the photos! Besides, we simply want her home!!!!!
We know that wherever Megan is she is never out of God's hands! He has her safe, feeling loved, and well cared for and we trust His timing will be perfect!
Currently, the families being matched to available babies have been logged in with the CCAA for 13-14 months. If this holds true, then we can expect to hear something in January or February 2007. Subsequently, we would then travel to bring Megan home in April or May 2007. It could be March, however, I really do not see that happening. And if it is April, it will probably be toward the end of April as there is a huge trade fair close to the Embassy the last few weeks of April. Agencies typically do not have family groups go during that time because of all the commotion and hotel rooms are not only extremely expensive, they are also hard to find. There are rumors, however, that we could have to wait until May or June 2007. Our agency, at this point, does not seem to think we will have to wait this long, but there are never any guarantees. And since we are at the CCAA's mercy, we simply wait until our turn comes up.
Keep praying that Megan will be home for Katie's wedding in July!!!! Although we have decided not to have her actually participate in the wedding due to her only being home for a short time, we want her here for the photos! Besides, we simply want her home!!!!!
We know that wherever Megan is she is never out of God's hands! He has her safe, feeling loved, and well cared for and we trust His timing will be perfect!
Saturday, July 01, 2006
Not much new to report on the adoption other than we are still anxiously awaiting Megan's arrival! The CCAA has now reviewed up through October 31, 2005 and indications are they are almost done reviewing November. So within the next few weeks, if they need additional information, they may be contacting us to provide that. Although that does not happen very often, it does happen. We do not expect it to happen, but it would tell us that they are reviewing our file! This is the first step in the process--the review.
As far as matching children with families--the second step, they are finishing up those placed on the list in June. The hope is they will be going a bit faster now as May and June were months where record numbers of individuals were placed on the list. The CCAA is saying they are attempting to keep the wait within 12 months which would mean we'd receive our match in December, however, I believe it will happen before that. However, it remains to be seen!
I will keep posting...however slow...as more exciting news come available!
As far as matching children with families--the second step, they are finishing up those placed on the list in June. The hope is they will be going a bit faster now as May and June were months where record numbers of individuals were placed on the list. The CCAA is saying they are attempting to keep the wait within 12 months which would mean we'd receive our match in December, however, I believe it will happen before that. However, it remains to be seen!
I will keep posting...however slow...as more exciting news come available!
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