We're trying a new deep conditioner because her hair is SO DRY. And it requires her to wear a shower cap...this was our first try at it. She's so cute!!!
She's really enjoying her chalk board lately. Here she said she drew me a rainbow. So, we're both taking pictures of the rainbow!
I love this pic..
She is so precious...
Maybe some are wondering why we have opted to adopt from China again. And maybe even more some are wondering why we have chosen to adopt a teenager from China. I have had people ask me “why not adopt a teenager from here?” And maybe others are wondering the same question.
There are many reasons why we feel this child—YangLan (soon to be Rachel)—is the child we want to bring into our family. First, we do not want Megan to be the only Chinese person in our family. Why does this matter to us? Well, sometimes adopted children feel like they are “different” because they are the only one in their family who does “fit” or doesn’t look like someone else. Does that mean Megan will feel this way? No, but she might. And we want her to have someone who has a similar heritage as her in our family.
Second—and potentially most importantly—is Rachel’s age. See in China, on an orphan’s 14th birthday, they “age out”. They are no longer eligible for services and can no longer live in the orphanage. For a child—age 14—who has lived in an environment where everything was done for them (cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc.), they have little to no survival skills. There are several different non-profits that offer programs at some orphanages to help children have a trade skill for when they age out. These trades may be ironing, laundry, computers, etc. And I would venture to guess that with the American child labor laws, few—if any—are able to work in factories. This leaves few other options for them to survive, prostitution being one of them.
We never expected to adopt from China again. In fact, back in 1998 or 1999 when I first felt called to adopt from China (and began praying for our daughter in China), I believed we only had one daughter in China. When we began the process to bring Megan home, I firmly believed we would only go back to China to visit—one day. However, since we got home with Megan, I’ve wanted her to have a sibling. With her continuing sleep problems, we really felt adding a child younger than Megan may not be the best solution for us. Besides, we are not getting any younger! I’m not sure if at my age I want to do the baby-thing again. I’m not saying starting to parent a child who has 13 years of history before us is going to be easy, but I’m going to venture to guess she’s sleeping through the night! LOL. However, once we truly discussed and decided to pursue an adoption of an older child, I realized all these years I have been praying for both Megan and Rachel. How amazing is God?!
I’ve also recently realized that most don’t know the story of Megan—well, the part I can share! When we shared with our friends and family that we were beginning the process to adopt from China, it was a little more than a year after Ian had died. Within about six weeks, God brought us over $21,000 to completely fund the adoption having done virtually nothing! Now, we had to wait for over two years to bring her home, but we never questioned whether we were on the right path because we knew this was God’s plan for at that time. This time, we are not questioning God’s timing because we know Rachel can’t wait much longer—she turns 14 in September! We are trusting He will handle the finances this time around, too! So, we are doing things like the ipad giveaway, selling hair clips, garage sale, consignment sales, selling t-shirts, applying for grants, working overtime, etc. to obtain the funds to bring Rachel home.
YES, you read that right!!!
Well, what else would you wear with your swim suit than biker boots? I mean, really, mom.
My little piano player (like Dr. Marvel on Punchinello, of course)
Another family pic taken by our case manager after our homestudy
My little beauty with pigtails. Hair has gotten so long she no longer needs clips to hold back the wisps!
My cuteness (otherwise known as "sweetness")
At the splash park with her friend Marisa
Doesn't she look too grown up here?
Always the imitator!
Who doesn't eat their oatmeal with their cool shades on? Right?
Doing "santa claus face"...as she calls it...(aka shaving) with daddy in the morning.
Family pic using the timer on the camera. Not bad, I didn't think! 
Such a beauty. She's so grown up!
The other orange sold out...so here's the new one.
Yellow--Large
Hot Pink--Large
Deep Red--Large
close up of the flower:
Medium white flower (approx 3 inches in diameter)
spring green zigzag, light blue, lavender stripes, light pink with white dots
